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| Adrian Mastracci, fee-only
investment counsel says "There are many
ways to assist children realize their sound
financial futures." |
Vancouver, BC (June 18,
2002): Parents and
grandparents are very attentive about their children's
and grandchildren's money skills. Everything you
read points to ensuring that our youngsters have
a positive experience with matters of money.
Adrian Mastracci, fee-only
investment counsel and president of Vancouver
based KCM Wealth Management, comments,
"Too many children leave home not fully prepared
to handle the daily responsibilities and implications
of the financial pillars such as budgeting, balancing
the chequebook, credit cards and making appropriate
investment decisions."
Mastracci notes, "Parents and grandparents
have a long road to teach children and grandchildren
the many lessons that lead to sound money management.
We cannot just expect this to happen. Children
that don't acquire sufficient money skills can
face difficult consequences in their adult life."
"However, there are many ways to
assist children realize their sound financial
futures," says Mastracci, "The first realization
is that children look up to their parents and
grandparents for direction on their money management.
They copy what the important people in their lives
actually do, not what they say."
Mastracci says, "In order to demonstrate
by example, parents and grandparents should first
work through their own financial issues. If money
management is not one of their strengths, they
may seek help so they can be more effective teachers
for their children."
"Be aware that your children can
see through any inconsistencies between what you
encourage them to do financially versus how you
actually conduct yourself," comments Mastracci,
"Good habits learned early will form the lasting
foundations of responsible money management."
Mastracci outlines 10 concepts that
form solid money management skills for all children.
1. "Let them make plenty of financial
mistakes"
Yes, that's right! Let them make plenty of financial
mistakes. As important, don't rush to correct
them. They will foul up often, but allow children
to make their own decisions, even the wrong ones.
For instance, if they want to buy something with
their money, let them even if you disagree. Later,
ask them if they are happy with their purchase
and discuss the impact of their decision. It is
all part of making informed choices. Practice
will get it right, and don't sweat the small stuff!
There is more to be learned by children
making mistakes than by doing it right every time.
They will gain more knowledge sooner if you let
them make plenty of mistakes. The key is to learn
from their mistakes.
Adults are often not prepared to
take counsel from professionals until they have
worked through a number of mistakes. Children
are very similar; they listen more after making
their own mistakes.
2. "Spending and saving"
Start the process by having each child manage
a regular allowance, say $1.00 per week in quarters
at around age five, and agree on dividing the
allowance between the "spending" and "saving"
jars.
Allowances are an excellent way
to teach children financial responsibility. However,
do not link the allowances to household chores.
Children receive the allowances so they can learn
about money.
The goal is for the children to
spend money on items of their choice and pay for
them. Dipping into the saving jar is allowed,
just like in real life, especially when children
are saving for that special purchase.
Teach your children well about saving
and spending, especially the spending. This is
major step to successful money management. As
the children grow older, the allowances increase
and they can learn about earning money by working
to make extra money at the same time.
3. "When we spend the money,
it's gone"
This is a bit of a struggle for young children
to grasp. A way to quicken the process is for
the child to remove the money from the spending
and saving jar and hand it to the cashier at the
time of purchase. Discuss the idea that when the
allowance is fully spent, there is no more until
the next one.
One way to teach good money habits
is to discuss the merits of something that the
children purchased. You should inquire as to whether
the children would purchase something different,
whether the purchase has been beneficial, and
would they do it again the same way. The answers
may surprise you.
If you refrain from telling the
children what to do, even when you are completely
right, they will develop better money habits sooner.
4. "We can't buy everything,
we make choices"
Give children options to decide on how, what,
where and when to spend the money. The concept
"if there is no cash, you can't buy it" will slowly
take a foothold. Further, there should be no borrowing
on future allowances, especially for young children.
It is important to allow children
to actually spend a good part of their money.
Trust me on this one, it is the least cost lesson
that you can convey to a child. It will save you
a bundle later.
Assist your children in understanding
consumerism. Take them shopping whenever possible
and try to evaluate both the product and the service.
As an example, children can learn plenty by evaluating
the food and the service when the family eats
out at a restaurant.
5. "Pay yourself first"
One of the essential lessons is to save for something
that children want. Condition the children to
put aside a certain amount of their cash intake
on a regular basis. Start with something manageable,
say 10 to 15 percent, and increase its over time,
say to 25 to 30 percent.
Try to train the child to put aside
the savings money first before other allocations.
Hence, the phrase "pay yourself first". You can
also illustrate the difference between saving
for something in the near future, say the purchase
of a small gift in a week or two, versus long-term
savings such as for the bicycle.
6. "Becoming an owner"
Begin a simple stock portfolio that you can afford
for your children or grandchildren. Over time,
select three or more stocks that the children
can easily relate to - say a toy company, music
company, soft drink company, computer firm or
the famous restaurant.
Of course, ask for their input in
the stock selection process and engage them in
discussions of how these companies affect their
life. Make sure that at least one of the chosen
companies sends a regular dividend, no matter
how small, and encourage the children to check
the stock prices.
My investment counsel hat is being
removed, but only for a brief moment, to suggest
that you put aside thoughts of long-term asset
allocation for the starter portfolio. Concentrate
on making it an experience that children can relate
to in their everyday life. This is the more important
lesson.
If possible, select a company who
holds its annual general meeting near you. This
allows you to take the child to the meeting and
experience firsthand what it means to be a shareholder.
Of course, be prepared to exit early as their
attention span may be short, especially in the
early years.
7. "Credit cards"
Children should receive training on the philosophy,
the implications, and the responsible use of credit.
Keep in mind that having credit is a privilege,
not a right. Children who do not understand the
implications of credit, often find themselves
swamped. An essential point is that credit is
never free money and must be repaid. The inappropriate
use of credit is one of the major mistakes made
by adults.
Make sure that each child's first
credit card has small limits that you are comfortable
with. Also ensure that the invoices are paid on
a timely basis, and in full.
Once they become teenagers, your
children will likely receive plenty of applications
for credit cards. This intensifies immensely when
they reach the college years. Often, credit cards
do not require parental permission and may allow
children to accumulate more debt that they can
repay.
8. "Compound interest"
Explain the magic of compounding interest. As
an example, investing $50 per month at 7% per
year, compounded monthly, accumulates to about
$26,000 in 20 years and $61,000 in 30 years. A
second one is to keep pace to a 3% annual rate
of inflation on $1,000 of today's dollars will
require just over $1,800 in 20 years and $2,000
in 24 years.
Another area that children can visually
see the effect of compounding interest is on the
growth of their savings account when the money
is invested in vehicles such as a money market
fund, government bond or certificate of deposit.
9. "The household bills"
Discuss the cost of running your home - rent or
mortgage, food, telephone, utilities, property
taxes, eating out, personal items, gifts, car
insurance and gas - and how to help the family
save money. Teach the importance of paying bills
before penalties are incurred.
Get your children involved in household
spending decisions and simple bill paying. They
will be doing the same thing as you are, sooner
than you think.
10. "Writing the cheque"
Allowing the older children the actual life experience
of running their own chequing account is almost
a miracle. There is nothing more definitive than
children writing cheques from their own accounts.
Sometimes it is pure agony to watch the money
flow out.
You will find that most financial
institutions can provide suitable accounts for
children of all ages. Take advantage of as many
of these provisions as possible and as your children
require them.
"Your major goal is to demonstrate
a positive attitude towards money, to take responsibility
for your actions and to be accountable. That is
how you convey the development of good money habits,"
comments Mastracci.
"Walk the talk with your children
and grandchildren. The sounder your financial
judgement, the better theirs will be," notes Mastracci.
"Treat your own money with due respect
and allow your children to share that respect,"
Mastracci summarizes, "This is one of the best
investments you can make."
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